Whiskey and Porn for Everyone

Whiskey and Porn for Everyone: "ZEN AND FORGIVE
January 16, 2011
In The art of forgiving, I explored how most of us are taught the wrong things of forgiveness. Forgiveness is not something we are 'supposed to' do, and it's never a thing we owe another. Forgiveness actually has very little to do with the person who's harmed you. It's a thing you have to come to yourself, for yourself. When we realize we've been harmed, when we feel stuck, when we are afraid of how the past has affected us, we have to wrestle with forgiveness. Forgiving is not a natural thing. It's a thing we have to learn. But it's forgiving that truly allows us to change who we are, our lives, and the patterns of..."